hi there....remember me i am daisy....sorry it took so long for me to get back to you....the abusive husband i left three years ago....i gave him the house and a truck....my son is from my first marriage...so me and my second husband don't have any children together....though sometimes i get so emotional and all i could do is cry....the man who raised me beat my mom everyday and put us kids in the closet...he thought he was protecting us from seeing all that....but hearing the screams of my mother "woody please don't hit me no more!!" got to me worse than kind of beating a man can give me....my mother means so much to me....ofcourse i love my jesus more....my mom is right up there with him....for the way love her so much..
after all the kids grew up and were gone...mom just stopped taking care of woody....didn't cook didn't talk to him....didn't wash his clothes....and when he saw that....he went to a woman who would do all that....so woody left her....we were so happy....my mother is happily married now to a man that will never hit her....someone who really loves her and helps her with everything....i am proud of my mother...my mother is fine now and safe....but the emotional scars are there and it remains that i sometimes can't deal with them....like right now....i think about it and wish to god there was something i could have done back then....i was only 3 years old....what could i have done....he also beat us kids too....
you know 6 years ago....i seen woody at my brothers house....my brother has always been scared of him....i am not scared of him...i hated him for a while....i got in his face and told him how i felt about hitting my mom for all those 28 years....you know he denied everything....the coward he is he stood there before me and his new wife and denied everything....it is only a matter of time that she will find out the truth....he still cheats on his new wife....he cheated on my mother....just like when i was 16...he asked me to lay with him....i couldn't believe it....he used hunting....(something that i loved to do so much....as a way to try to get into my pants....i was 16 years old....when i was smaller i remember him playing some kind of games with me....i didn't start remembering them until i married chris and chris started reminding me of woody (my step dad)....i did tell my mom what was going on....then i stuck with the truth for a week....i told my mom yes mama he did this to me....she believed me....but i seen her cry everyday....and i am very close to my mother....i couldn't bare to see the pain in her eyes any longer....so i told her i lied....i told her i was trying to get even with woody for making me break up with my first boyfriend....i didn't lie ms jotmom...i just wanted everything to get back to normal....it did get back to normal...i was very careful to avoid woody on his off days...i had 4 horses growing up so i stayed in the woods most of the days....and i would come home way after bed time....i was the black sheep of the family..my sister and brothers wouldn't talk to me....because woodie told them lies about me....plus they (my own brothers and sister ) talked about my face and made fun of me....so yeah i have emotional problems....sometimes i can deal with them....sometimes i can't...
the man you see beside me in my profile picture....he is the best thing that has ever happened to me....he is a wonderful man...he is 10 years younger than me....he is 29 and i am 39....but still age is only numbers....he is slow to anger....patient...don't complain...he don't gripe....he is everything in my book....the perfect man....i have to go...it is getting late....if you can....i would like to take you up on that offer about the phone number....because....moral support is better than any amount of cash there is....thanks for caring....can you please send a private message to me with your phone number....lol i promise right here and now i will not be calling all hours of the night....or the day....only at reasonable times....daniel he is trying to help me...but him being a man and all....he can't relate to me....so thanks and god speed
daisy
I need help fast before I loose my home due to unpaid taxes that need to be payed yesterday. I lost everything in hurricane katrina, now I h ave my home and need 400 dollars to pay. I am disabled so i cannot work.can someone find me some resources please. Help!,!!!
Merry Christmas 2 every 1. It's a bad Christmas 4 me an my kids I cry so much. Today I don't have present or a tree this year. This is our first Christmas not celebrating Christmas I pray for God 2 send me a Christmas angel. My #215 4571786 if any one donating a car please am in need Let me known it's would be a blessing. Please is there out there a good Samaritan. So far its the worst.
in response to gonecrazy...First of all you and your husband are still married, it is still his responsesability, to give his family home, even if that means he does without. Go for disability, I have Bipolar, an chronic pain.
God Bless you I hope the best for you.
HAS ANY ONE HAVE HELP FOR US?PLEASE IM RUNNING OUT OF TIME.JUST SEEN A TOY FOR TOTS SANTA SAYING A CHILD NO MATTER THE AGE NEEDS GIFTS OR COULD TURN TO BAD THINGS.HES GOING TO SEE FRIENDS WITH NEW GIFTS AND HE WANT HAVE NOTHING.PLEASE SOMEONE LET ME NO IF YOU CAN HELP ME,GET HIM CHRISTMAS,PLEASE?????
in response to alisi...I'm having the same problem it seems, so I just wanted to let you know that I see this post, so whatever you did to post that time is correct.
I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW ARE THERE REALLY ANY HELP OUT THERE FOR CHRISTMAS FOR MY CHILDREN, I AM SUFFERING FROM A MEDICAL CONDITION THAT I CAN NOT PROVIDE FOR MY CHILDREN FOR CHRISTMAS NOTHING NOR EXTRA ITEMS NEEDED FOR SCHOOL OR HOME.
HELLO ALL I AM VERY SHAMFEULLY POSTING ON HERE THAT I NEED HELP, I AM A SINGLE MOTHER OF A LITTLE GIRL SHE IS ALMOST 5 AND SHE IS THE LIGHT OF MY LIFE, I CAN BARELY KEEP A ROOF OVER OUR HEAD AND OUR HEAT AND LIGHTS ON, AND WITH XMAS HERE I FEEL LIKE A FAILURE, I JUST MOVED TO CENTRAL SQUARE,NY TO FLEE AN ABUSIVE EX THAT I WAS WITH FOR 12 YEARS, IT TOOK ALL I HAD IN ME TO LEAVE BUT I HAD TO SAVE MY CHILD AND MYSELF, SO AS YOU CAN SEE THINGS HAVE BEEN ROUGH. I CANNOT WORK AS WHEN I DID MY EX WOULD TRAVEL OVER 400 MILES FROM WHERE IM FROM AND HE WOULD HARRASS ME, SO IVE LOST MY JOB, HAD TO MOVE, AND LIVE IN CONSTANT FEAR AND DEPRESSION AT HOW BAD A MOM I AM. SHE DESERVES THE VERY BEST, SHE IS A VERY SMART, FUNNY, ADORABLE AND CARING LITTLE GIRL. SHE ALSO WAS DIAGNOSSED WITH ADHD AND BIPOLAR DISORDER AND SHE IS NOT EVEN 5 YET. PLEASE ANYONE IF YOU CAN HELP A FAMILY IN NEED THIS FAMILY NEEDS IT SO BAD, I DONT EVEN HAVE MONEY TO GET A TREE...I FEEL LIKE A FAILURE. NOT TO MENTION ON DEC 1ST I LOST MY MOTHER SO I HAVE NOONE, NO SUPPPORT SYSTEM AND IM ALL ALONE... SO PLEASE IF YOU CAN HELP MY EMAIL IS jplante27@yahoo.com. THANK YOU SO MUCH, GOD BLESS!!
God please send me an angel I'm trying so hard I know you work in mysterious ways I will not lose faith in you. Thank you for all you have blessed me an my family with.
Hello, I am 20 years only and have lots of problems with my teeth, I don't have coverage and I am very scared that I will lose all my teeth soon... I am in pain 24/7 and this is my last resort. I am from Alberta so if anyone knows any information that could help me please please please let me know.
I am reaching out to anyone who can help me give my family some peace and comfort at this time of year. I have some very serious health issues that has kept me from being able to be employed for the last 3 years. My wife has had to leave her job recently to care for me and my daughter who is 11. We have no way pay our rent this month, and of course we have no way to get Christmas for any of our family, or Grandchildren. I am praying that someone out there could help us. I know that many people are struggling and I wish I could be the one helping, but I am the one asking for help, much to my dismay. I pray God will send my family a miracle thru someone out there. Please help and God bless.
Hi my Nam is Amanda I'm mother of 4 wonderful kid's I really need help to be able to give my kids something for Christmas they are 12,11,8&6 please help me I don't want to disappoint them.. if u can help please please open ur heart to my family and I will be forever greatful
This time of year doesn't stop your regular needs it just seems to make them stand out more. (Somedays more than others) I know I am not the only one in need and I am hoping maybe I can help someone too. My 6 yr old( well birthday is Jan 6) has hardly any clothes and my daughter is in boys or neutral clothes( handed down). I was thinking maybe someone else in need. Would like to trade? For my boy anything size 6/7 I will take. For baby girl I will take anything 9 months and up...they grow fast so I'll take larger sizes. Let me know if you could use boy sizes 2t and under or 5t and we'll talk.
Hello I am a stay at home mom do to having 2 disabled children. I do have 3 kids altogether. My oldest is 6 (boy) he was born with afew issues and has had 3 surgeries so far. Despite that he is very energetic and creative. He changed my life for the better. Next I have a rambunctious 3 yr old boy who never stops. Last but not least I have my 9 month old girl. We just found out that she will be going in for surgery due to her soft spots closing. Basically I want us to be together for Christmas but ofcourse the kids want Santa. I don't have the heart to tell them we are broke, cannot afford bills or even going back and forth to the hospital. I don't think they would understand anyways. If someone can help it would be appreciated and if not understood....lots of people are in need right now. Either way Happy Holidays to all.
Do you know of a Dentist that will take payments for work that needs to be done to my teeth? No dental Insurance and don't have the money to do anything about it. I have two young girls that are on a small insurance plan and they plan won't cover nearly what they need. Anyone have any ideas? I appreciate.
Hi, I see that there is so much poverty right here in the United States. It seems everyone needs some kind of help or assistace. So many of us are single parents stuggling with financial and mental issues. How did it get like this? It's so sad. I always wished for just enough money to be comfortable in life and the mental compacity to manage it. Will that dream become reality, I don't know but at 40 i have my doubts. So i just keep stuggling along and hoping for the best and i hope everyone the best. Life is so short but it appears are stuggles are long. How can you enjoy what this world is all about if you can't see any of it because we are all just tring to keep our little space in the world above water. They say living is hard, dying is easy. Take care of what you got and appritciate every breath because i don't know what's on the other side, do you?
There is hope for all of us. I am still having a lot of trouble with the bank and they tell me the only way to take care of it all is to go to the bank where I opened my acct. I don't think this should be the case since we have moved quite a distance from there and I don't have much money for gas right now. Anyway, I wish you well and you take care of that little boy and all will work out for you.
On my homepage I have crafts and suggestions for gifts for Christmas, anit much but could be fun. There are also some that you can have the kids help with. If that isn't good enough I think I can dig up a few more. There are also other post that may be of help and could help loosen a purse string or two.They are there for anyone who needs them.
Do you have these number 1-800-886-2282 American Brain Tumor Association
or 1-800-934-CURE (14324)
for disabilities and life threatening conditions:
1-800 835 1043 Institute of Logopedics
1-800-344-5405 ABLEDATA
1-800-333-6293 National center for Youth with Disabilities
1-800-426-2133 National Support Center for Persons with Disabilities
That will give you a few to go through, don't be bashful either ask if they have any financial assistance that they can give.
I might be able to come up with a few more if I kknew the name of it. Is it near or touch upon the spine? I aveTwo more for that and two more that cover disabilities- I don't know which ones. I have 5 more dealing with Terminal Illnesses. Here's one 1-800-999-6673 National Organization for Rare Disorders$ more for head/brain injury. Let me know if you want them all. Good Luck and God Bless
Help! I need help on bills. I've been disabled for some time now (I had a stroke). I have a couple of bills that have gone into collections, and I was talking to a collector recently who mentioned these resources. If it's possible I would like to get these bills paid off. There are a couple that are $2000 and not being able to work to pay these off has become a problem. I don't make enough with disability to make payment arrangements in order to pay these off. I'm considered permanently disabled. I want to work, but because of the tremor I have in my left hand and very limited use of it, I'm not able.
hello, i was told this was the site that ppl helped ppl. i worked for a company for 20 years and they closed down i was out of work for 3 years i found a job about a year ago still its better than zero dollars coming in. im making a fraction of what i made. my taxes were sold and im not current with my taxes this year, yes i have been saving to pay them but when i have the money something breaks(car,dryer,washing machine) if its not one thing its another(lol)yes i know its not a laughing matter. i have 2 children and they see me stressed i dont let them know we are about to loose our house, i have let my brother and sister know about my problem my brother is on unemployment and really cant help me my sister who lives about an hour away just laughs and says its all my fault.im not a bad person i have bailed my mom out when she was in foreclosure when i had a good job and now she turns her back on me when i need the help.i would really like any help with websites ,advice anything ..im getting really desperate... if there is anyone out there that can help my family please help
in response to montedreams...Hello, Thank you for the information. I went to the website and it directed me to the local chapter in my area, however that site said the application list is now closed due to the number of requests. If you have any other suggestions I would love to know. Again I thank you for your help.
yes is there anyone from north carolina or south carolina that can tell me please to get help in my area please of rowan county nc salisbury nc thank you god bless you for your help
I NEED HELP WITH FOOD CLOTHES MEDICALS JOB WORK A PLACE TO STAY AND SLEEP GET AROUND IN MY CITY OF SALISBURY ROWAN COUNTY NC TALK WITH PASTORS AND PRAYER FOR ME PLEASE THANK YOU AND ANYTHING ELSE I SHOULD NEED THANKS GOD BLESS YOU HAVE A GREAT WEEK.
in response to Amaryllisminx...i use to help out an old artist (painter) friend of mine at Renaissance festivals and the fun really starts after the lights go down and everyone from the festivals are just hanging out((: I met alot of nice laid back bros and sisters there.
I see it's been awhile since your profile page was created. I hope things are better for you, like your car, rent, your son's tempermant, etc. I, too am seeking solutions to my car, and better job issues.
in response to gonecrazy...oh my goodness so many needs outside of the dental posted on this page. I used to work for The Homeless Coalition in Florida so I am suggesting that no matter where you live, if you have need for housing or anything, check with your local homeless association or your local Department of Children and Families and they will certainly do all they can to help. GOD bless each and every one of you and may He answer all your cries for help in Jesus Name. Amen
in response to daughterofabraham...HELLO....Daughterofabraham thank you so much, i called St.vincen D paul they pay my utility bill i'm so happy. I thank you for helping me out,my only problem now i just receive a 3 days notice at my door when i came from work today...so i have to move out in 3 day and I don't even know where i'm going with that little girl in my arms. I'm still thinking I cant stop crying since i came from work, thank you again.... may God will always bless you and your family.
Doune....Just wanted to add that try calling St.Vincent D paul in the morning. They were helping last week they had funds. And I know that you probly know about 211. Theres a church in Boynton off of Federal hwy. I cant remember the name of it that usually helps. Just pray and get on the phone and ask God to open up doors and to give you favor...He is faithful and just and he dose not want you to be in that situation, your breakthrough is coming...
in response to DOUNE...Hello Doune....I just wanted to encourage you to keep praying but stay faithful in praise. You gotta look crazy to every one elce and praise God even in your circumstance.I was just in your exact situation a week ago I felt like God was so far away...Perfect example of he may not come when you want him but hes right on time...He will still make a way in the wilderness for you. You just gotta TRUST HIM even when you can't seem to trace him...He's right there with you...I'm praying for you and your daughter...Be encouraged....
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Winter Haven, FL, US
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I am a mother of three with one on the way I was recently laid off from my job and now looking for work which things are hard at this time but I am doing my best. Me and my baby on the way father is s... see full post
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Well its been awhile since Ive even been able to think of somethig to share with others that would be encourageing to others that are members to this site. When I originally joined I thought I w... see full post